费德华 | 记忆中的舔碗
<p><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: 微软雅黑; color: rgb(40, 40, 40); font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 2em;">一粥一饭当思来之不易，半丝半缕恒念物力维艰。</span></p><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">父亲当过生产队队长，每天负责全队社员的分工安排。早晨，社员们会捧着饭碗来我家门前看当天分工情况，了解自己要做的活计。家门前成了全生产队最热闹的地方。大伙儿边吃边商量着今天要带哪些农具，挑粪的要带粪桶，挖墒的要拿大锹，家里没有的还得管人家借。那时虽说穷，人与人之间却团结友爱、互帮互助。映像最深是大人们有个习惯性动作，吃完饭手把着碗伸出舌头顺势沿着碗边舔。</span></span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:Calibri;font-size:10.5000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><br/></span></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">记忆里长辈们都曾舔过碗。我是家里唯一的</span><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">“惯宝”也舔过。小时候吃饭时，奶奶总是坐在我的跟前，掉下来的饭粒儿奶奶会及时捡起来吃的。奶奶时常提醒我：不能浪费粮食，糟蹋粮食响雷会打头。小时候我怕打雷，电闪雷鸣时就会躲进奶奶的怀里，奶奶总拿这个吓我。我吃过的碗奶奶从来都不嫌弃，每次都舔得干干净净。奶奶还鼓励我舔呢。</span></span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:Calibri;font-size:10.5000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><br/></span></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">儿时喜欢捧着碗到外面吃，左邻右舍的小伙伴们常在一起边吃边玩。吃完饭都会舔碗的，有时会粘在鼻子、脸上，有时头发也跟着沾光。大伙儿相互也不言语，你瞧着我笑，我看着你乐，谁也不觉得尴尬。</span></span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:Calibri;font-size:10.5000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><br/></span></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">父亲时常讲述</span><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">“大饥荒”的那些事儿。说他啃过树皮、吃过野菜，吃过皮糠，皮糠算是好的食物了，有时将皮糠、野菜掺和做成饼煎着吃。后来连野菜也吃不到了，饿得难受吃过“观音土”。因长时间吃野菜、青菜还得过“青紫病”。好多人家因吃不饱肚子而四处逃荒。父亲忆起那段苦难的日子，眼晴里总是噙满泪水。在我幼小的心灵上留下深刻的印象。</span></span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:Calibri;font-size:10.5000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><br/></span></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">记得小时候大米饭是</span><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">“大餐”，正常吃的是面糊粥、粯子粥。记得父亲煮面糊粥时，先将面粉调成糊状，等水烧开后边搅动铲子边倒入面糊。有时煮粥放些胡萝卜、山芋干、青菜之类的杂粮。等粥熬好了，父亲盛一碗薄粥，嘴沿着碗边吸溜吸溜的喝着，搛一小块咸菜嚼得咯嘣香，父亲喝完粥总是要舔碗的。</span></span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:Calibri;font-size:10.5000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><br/></span></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">那时的人缺</span><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">“油水”，能吃。土话说：厚粥三碗半，薄粥紧肚灌。我小时候能吃两小二碗粥呢。早晨煮上满满一锅粥，你一碗，他一碗，一会工夫就吃没了，还用铲子在锅中不断地刮来刮去 。</span></span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:Calibri;font-size:10.5000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><br/></span></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">大伯家人多劳力少，经常吃了这顿愁那顿。大伯常说的口头语：添人不添粮，舀水瓢作了忙。那粥端在手上能照见人脸，吃时鼻风吹成</span><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">“二条沟”。吃得多饿得快，两泡尿撒完，肚子就咕咕咕的叫个不停。尤其青黄不接的时候，一天只能吃两顿粥。</span></span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:Calibri;font-size:10.5000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><br/></span></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">七十年代末，生活条件稍有改善，平时也能吃上大米饭了。不过，大米里要掺杂粮煮的。我小时候吃得最多的是青菜饭，儿时叫</span><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">“酸饭”。酸饭挑脂油，吃得堵到头。</span></span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:Calibri;font-size:10.5000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><br/></span></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">父亲一直告诫我</span><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">“俭以养德、勤以持家”。我家门楹上贴的春联常常是：勤俭节约光荣，铺张浪费可耻。</span></span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:Calibri;font-size:10.5000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><br/></span></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">父亲不仅这样说，也是这样做的。夏天剩下来的米粥馊了，父亲是舍不得倒掉的，里面加些面粉发酵，第二天早上就可以吃到香喷喷的</span><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">“江饼”了。有时用碎米粉发酵做成“米饼”，吃到嘴里有点酸酸甜甜的。喝口米粥咬口饼，那滋味是天上人间了。</span></span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:Calibri;font-size:10.5000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><br/></span></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">分田到户后，生活条件虽有所改善，父亲还是改不了舔碗的习惯。我有时劝父亲不要舔碗。父亲刚开始是不接受的，说：农村生的，农村长的，粮食来之不易，没有什么丢人的。等我长大成人了，父亲就改掉了这种习惯。主要是考虑我到找对象的年龄了。</span></span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:Calibri;font-size:10.5000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><br/></span></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">父亲清苦节俭的生活不但影响了我，也影响了我的儿子。儿子在顾庄上初中，父亲每周给他伍元钱，让他买零食和饮料。有次，父亲手头紧，儿子从他的储罐里倒出一百多块钱拿到父亲的面前。父亲责问他钱从哪来的？儿子说他平时舍不得花攒下来的。父亲心疼地说：宝贝孙子！你是不是个</span><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">“呆小”？</span></span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:Calibri;font-size:10.5000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><br/></span></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">儿子现在外地工作，也有了自己的儿子。孙子背的第一首古诗是《悯农》：锄禾日当午，汗滴禾下土。谁知盘中餐，粒粒皆辛苦。我问孙子谁教的，孙子说：奶奶教我的。</span></span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:Calibri;font-size:10.5000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><br/></span></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">古人云：俭，德之共也；侈，恶之大也。勤俭节约不仅是一种美德，也是一种素养。</span></span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:Calibri;font-size:10.5000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><br/></span></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">有次参加亲戚的婚礼，婚礼隆重豪华。天上飞的、水里游的、地上走的、山珍海味应有尽有。满桌子的菜有的只动了一点点，有些根本没动，服务员撤的撤、倒的倒。席间，伯父一边品着美酒佳肴，一边欣赏俊男靓女们表演的节目，说：过去君王的日子也不过如此吧！以前，我结婚煮了顿胡萝卜大米杂粮饭招待宾朋，亲朋好友个个吃得欢欢喜喜、笑声满堂。</span></span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:Calibri;font-size:10.5000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><br/></span></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">伯父无限感憾：现代人算是赶上好时候了！</span></span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:Calibri;font-size:10.5000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><br/></span></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;">吃穿的进步，是人类文明的进步。你可以消费，千万不能浪费！</span></span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:Calibri;font-size:10.5000pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><br/></span></span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><br/></span></span></section><p><br/></p><p style="text-indent: 0em;"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes;font-family:微软雅黑;color:rgb(40,40,40);font-size:12.0000pt;"><span style="font-family:微软雅黑;"><strong>作者简介：</strong><br/></span></span></p><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; text-align: left;"><section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section><p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">费德华</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">，1966年生，兴化戴南人。江苏亚盛公司的一名普通员工。喜欢阅读，平时</span><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.034em;caret-color: var(--weui-BRAND);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">爱好用文字记录生活的点点滴滴。</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p><br/></p><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; text-align: left;"><strong>荐稿：陆享阳</strong></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; text-align: left;"><strong>编辑：吴勇胜</strong></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; text-align: left;"><strong>总编辑：陆碧波</strong></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; 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