钱建中｜退休时光随想
<section style="text-align: center;margin-bottom: 16px;" nodeleaf=""></section><p><br/></p><section data-support="96编辑器" data-style-id="38164" style="margin-bottom: unset;"><section style="margin:10px 0px;"><section style="border-color: rgb(88, 196, 202);border-style: solid;border-width: 1px;border-radius: 8px;padding: 8px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="background-image: linear-gradient(rgb(254, 254, 254), rgb(239, 254, 255));border-radius: 8px;padding: 10px 12px 20px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.6em;margin-top: 0px;"><strong style="color: rgb(214, 168, 65); font-size: 24px;"><span style="text-indent: 28px; font-family: 宋体; letter-spacing: 0.578px;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 24px;color: rgb(255, 169, 0);">退休时光随想</span></span></span></span></strong><br/></p><p style="text-align: center;margin-top: 15px;margin-bottom: 8px;line-height: normal;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: 宋体;letter-spacing: 2px;font-size: 16px;"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 16px;">文|</span></span><span style="font-size:14.0pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-fareast;"><span leaf="" data-pm-slice="1 1 "><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 16px;">钱建中</span></span></span></span></p><p style="text-align: center;margin-top: 15px;margin-bottom: 0px;line-height: 1em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: 宋体;letter-spacing: 2px;font-size: 16px;"><span style="font-size:14.0pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:
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minor-fareast;"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 17px;"> 2025</span></span></span><span style="font-size:14.0pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:
minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-fareast;"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 17px;">年的春天，清晨，第一缕阳光照进窗台时，宁静得没有一丝的声音，偶尔听见几声鸟鸣。没有赶点上班的紧张，也没有睡梦中烦人闹钟定时的敲响，剩下的只是一觉睡到自然醒的轻松和淡然。</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size:14.0pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:
minor-fareast;"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 17px;"> 退休，意味着人生下半程的来临，走向夕阳之路。当社会的时钟齿轮突然停摆，被工作挤压了半生的我们，正面临人生下半场的课题。挥挥手，告别上班时的人和事，清除存储在脑海中的不悦和烦恼。当下，品一盏清茶，闻一缕清香，享一刻清闲时光；打一场球，享受一次大汗淋漓带来的愉悦和放松；读一本书，进行一次心灵上的洗礼。现在，既无争“名”的烦恼，也没有年轻时争“利”的渴望，名利已成过往，曾经的“名”消弭于岁月足迹中，曾经的“利”融化于四季轮回里。</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size:14.0pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:
minor-fareast;"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 17px;"> “白发青丝一瞬间，年华老去向谁言，春风若有怜香意，可否许我再少年？”人生没有来回票，花无百日红，人无再少年。人生最大的悲剧莫过于美人迟暮，英雄末路。</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size:14.0pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:
minor-fareast;"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 17px;"> 提起刘晓庆，</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 17px;">60</span></span></span><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 17px;">后们无人不知，谁人不晓。不久前，她素颜回四川老家，完全一副</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 17px;">70</span></span></span><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 17px;">岁老太太的形象示人。曾几何时，在上世纪</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 17px;">80</span></span></span><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 17px;">年代初期，刘晓庆是无数男人心中的梦中情人。现如今的刘晓庆的形象与之前相比判若云泥。真可谓“自古美人叹迟暮，不许英雄见白头”。</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size:14.0pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:
minor-fareast;"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 17px;"> 三国时期，关云长为救主，面对许褚、徐晃、于禁曹营三员猛将的围攻，毫无惧色，并杀退对方。正值壮年的他傲视群雄，在其眼中，除吕布外，那些武将们多半只是“插标卖首尔”，轻蔑之态，溢于言表。“水淹七军”时，更是擒于禁，斩庞德，威震华夏，惊得老谋深算，阅历无数的曹操都要迁都。真可谓关羽人生中的高光时刻。然而，自与庞德一战身中一箭后，关羽的武力值，有所下降。之后在与徐晃大战中，明显力有所不支，这固然受箭伤未完全痊愈因素的影响，但关二爷此时毕竟已过知天命之年，这才是不争的事实。这说明，岁月不饶人，英雄终有迟暮时。想当初，汉武帝刘彻曾想“向天再借</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 17px;">500</span></span></span><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 17px;">年”，未能如愿，而此时的关云长多想年轻十岁，当然也不会实现。若是如此，徐晃在他的青龙偃月刀下绝不会走过</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 17px;">40</span></span></span><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 17px;">回合，必会身首异处。然而，暮年的关羽只能仰天长叹。一生的“傲”和人生阶段的“暮”，只能让自己吞下败走麦城的人生苦果。</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size:14.0pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:
minor-fareast;"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 17px;"> 当你停止为生存而活，生命才真正开始。退休，早已不是人生的尾声，而是生命重启黄金档期，退休，不是被社会删除账号，而是切换登陆身份。因此，我们要学会在孤独的时候，给自己安慰，在寂寞的时候，给自己温暖。学会放松，学会享受，学会善待自己。吃，自己想吃的食物，看，自己想看的风景，做，自己想做的事，要活得风淡云轻。趁着还不算太老，身体健硕，走遍千山万水，尝遍各地美食。生活上饮食自律，身体上适当锻炼，精神上充盈自己。尽管我们无法延长生命的长度，但可以拓展自己生命的宽度，活出自己的精彩人生。</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size:14.0pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:
minor-fareast;"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 17px;"> 汪曾祺曾说过，人老了，一定要爱着点什么，恰似草木对光阴的钟情，晨起侍花，闲来煮茶，阳光下打盹，细雨中漫步，夜灯下读书，都是最美的日子。</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size:14.0pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:
minor-fareast;"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 17px;"> 在这清浅的时光里，一手烟火，一首诗意，任窗外花开花落，云卷云舒，自是余味无尽，万般惬意。</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size:14.0pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:
minor-fareast;"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 17px;"> 愿我们保持一颗宁静的心，少些期盼，多些宽容，宠辱不惊，去留无意，微笑向前，过好每一天。记住，你拥有什么样的心境，就拥有什么样的世界。</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size:14.0pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:
minor-fareast;"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 17px;"> 善待慢慢老去的自己吧。</span></span></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;font-size: 17px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"></span></p><section style="margin-bottom: 8px;line-height: 2em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;font-family: 宋体;"><o:p></o:p></span></section><section style="text-align: center;" nodeleaf=""></section><p style="color: rgb(50, 50, 50);letter-spacing: 2px;font-size: 14px;text-align: justify;transform: rotateZ(0deg);line-height: normal;margin-bottom: 0px;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></p></section></section><section style="width:65px;margin-left:auto;margin-top:-30px;margin-right:12px;" nodeleaf=""></section></section></section><section data-support="96编辑器" data-style-id="36712" style="margin-bottom: unset;"><section style="text-align: center;padding: 10px 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display:inline-block;"><section style="font-size: 22px;color: #4ca291;transform: rotateZ(0deg);-webkit-transform: rotateZ(0deg);-moz-transform: rotateZ(0deg);-ms-transform: rotateZ(0deg);-o-transform: rotateZ(0deg);"><p><strong><span leaf="">END</span></strong></p></section><section style="width:70px;margin:-34px auto 0px;" nodeleaf=""></section></section></section></section><section data-support="96编辑器" data-style-id="38009" style="margin-bottom: unset;"><section style="margin: 0px 0px 10px;text-align: center;"><section style="width:80px;margin-bottom:-47px;margin-left:auto;"><span leaf=""><br/></span></section></section></section><section data-support="96编辑器" data-style-id="28993" style="margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="margin: 10px 0px;text-align: center;"><section style="display:inline-block;"><section style="text-align: right;"><section style="width:2.2em;background-color:#fefefe;display:inline-block;margin-left:auto;" nodeleaf=""></section></section><section style="margin: -13px 0px 0px;border-color: rgb(70, 161, 191);border-style: solid;border-width: 2px;padding: 5px 25px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="letter-spacing: 2px;transform: rotateZ(0deg);-webkit-transform: rotateZ(0deg);-moz-transform: rotateZ(0deg);-ms-transform: rotateZ(0deg);-o-transform: rotateZ(0deg);"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><strong><span leaf="">作者简介</span></strong></span></p></section></section></section></section><section data-support="96编辑器" data-style-id="28531" style="margin-bottom: 0px;"><section style="text-align: center;margin:10px 0px 20px;"><section style="margin: 0px 10px;border-color: rgb(138, 193, 199);border-style: solid;border-width: 1px;padding: 15px;background-color: rgb(229, 241, 244);box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;" nodeleaf=""></section><section style="margin:10px 0px 0px;color:#6090a5;"><section style="text-indent: 0em;text-align: justify;line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: 宋体;color: #000000;"><span leaf=""> </span></span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 17px;font-family: 宋体;"><span leaf=""> </span></span></section><section style="text-indent: 0em;text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;margin-bottom: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 17px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><span leaf=""> </span></span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 16px;"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </span></span></span><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">钱建中，兴化市陈堡镇人，中学高级教师，曾在《中国教育报》、《新华日报》、《扬州日报》等发表多篇文章，兴趣广泛，喜欢运动。</span></span></section></section></section><section style="margin-top:-30px;display: flex;align-items:flex-end;"><section style="width: 95%;height: 1px;background-color: #8ac1c7;margin-left: auto;" data-width="95%"><span leaf=""><br/></span></section><section style="width:2em;" nodeleaf=""><img src="https://xinsubei.com/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/Ljib4So7yuWiaicjhsFYHfjrk7s2WV8doWj1hP3N39lC5fLDR7qeZaPCsysfdLu9dlNEWSwuAUQ3dByCwia4Wzeo9A/640?wx_fmt=png" class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-ratio="0.5897435897435898" data-type="png" data-w="39" style="display: block;height: auto !important;"/></section></section></section></section><section data-support="96编辑器" data-style-id="27080" style="margin-bottom: 0px;"><section data-support="96编辑器" data-style-id="25195"><section style="text-align: left; margin: 10px 0px;"><section style="display:inline-block;"><section style="margin:10px 0px;"><section data-support="96编辑器" data-style-id="25923"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;"><section style="text-align: center;" nodeleaf=""><br/></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p><br/></p><p><strong>来源：陈堡草荡</strong></p><p><strong>编辑：吴勇胜</strong></p><p><strong>总编辑：陆碧波</strong></p><link rel="stylesheet" href="//xinsubei.com/source/plugin/wcn_editor/public/wcn_editor_fit.css?v134_IxM" id="wcn_editor_css"/>
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